Wednesday, 17 December 2014

Might end up getting somewhere soon...

Getting my haircut yesterday I had to take my glasses off, without them I can see much at all, sitting facing a mirror is bad enough but 100% more stressful when I cant see anything. Then this happened. Im sitting there trying to not to show that im too stressed when one of ‘them’ appeared in the mirror. Staring at me, it stayed there ages. Proper freaky as I could see ‘it’ no bother, like I would see anyone else if I had my glasses on, usually I wear contacts so ive never experienced that before like. Very very weird.


Also ive been thinking  about what I need to say to the gp about getting a quick referral to a psychiatrist privately, when me and Alex went through it all then its no the wonder things aren’t great. Diagnoses in Hexham was bipolar and borderline, they were going to re-asses this to see if I leaned more towards the schitzoaffective side of things. However they didn’t get around to it as I left the area. Got put in a sort of purgatory state in Sunderland by being placed with an Eip support worker who tried her best ut didn’t really have much insight into my problems. They decided that they didn’t need to see my notes or history from Hexham so just went with what she thought, I constantly disagreed with this support worker as I didn’t feel she was listening. She sat in on 2 sessions when I saw their team doc, he went with what she said rather than listening to what I had to say. I think this process has knocked my confidence somewhat and I feel back to square one. They taked about emotional dis regulation, I can handle my ups and downs for the most part, its the hallucinations and voices that are the biggest problem. They decided they would transfer me to a new team who deal with non-psychosis problems. Non-psychoisis, joking or what? If you see things that aren’t there, think that people are out to kill you, hear peoples thoughts, have voices commenting on you and constant noise in your head, what is that if not psychotic symptoms? Anyway the eip support worker sat in on an appointment where I met the woman who was  going to be my new worker, everything I said the eip worker contradicted and tried to push the new woman down a different track rather than listening to what was actually happening, she wanted to delve into my past to see what traumatic episode this stems from. She told me that there was a good chance it might not help and things would get worse. Thanks but no thanks then. I know the tablets haven’t helped all that much but I think in hindsight they might have helped a bit. Nothing has happened in my past, everythings all been fine. Its an illness. Does cancer come from a traumatic childhood experience? No, so this is no different in my mind. In my mind, haha. Im not repressing anything, it pisses me off that they can give me support, like those at hexham did, but chose not too, is it too much hard work for them? I dunno... I feel ive wasted a year and got worse and not better. So I have an app on Friday morning and hopefully I’ll get t see a Dr asap and look at more medication options. Its a fine balance between them helping and the side effects being too much though so I’ll se what develops. It actually feels like people think im making shit up sometimes, I mean I haven’t got the energy to do that like, you’d need to be an Oscar worthy actor with the discipline of a monk to play this part 24/7. It’s a complete living nightmare at times. I think because im high fuctioning and quite strong some people just think its not as bad as all that. Apparently ive been talking to myself (the voices anyway but out load from time to time) this has got to stop, I have to be stronger and get myself sorted. People rely on me for fucks sake. 

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